Annalise John Annalise John

Do You Dream of Tornados?

Annalise John, LCSW, therapist and founder of Rivercourse Counseling explains what those tornado dreams are all about

Read More
Annalise John Annalise John

Why We Fear Disappointment: A Therapist's Perspective

I know a lot of people will relate to this. Growing up, I HATED hearing my parents say, "I'm disappointed in you." I would have rather had just about any punishment than hear those words. I could not tolerate them being disappointed.

Read More
Annalise John Annalise John

The Surprising Way We Repeat Our Painful Patterns

When we’ve been hurt, it's natural to seek control. Control promises safety, predictability, and the illusion that we can prevent future pain. We create strict rules and rigid routines, believing that these will protect us. For example, someone who has been hurt in relationships might decide never to be vulnerable again, adhering strictly to this self-imposed rule to avoid potential heartbreak.

Read More
Annalise John Annalise John

The Power of EFT Tapping: A Therapist's Personal Take

As a therapist working with young adults, I often encounter clients who are dealing with stress, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm. And let's be real – I experience these things too. Tapping has been my go-to tool for managing my own emotions and staying grounded. It's quick, it's easy, and the best part? You can do it anywhere, anytime.

Read More
Annalise John Annalise John

5 Ways to Regulate Your Nervous System (No Cold Plunge Required!)

We’ve all heard about the benefits of cold plunges, but let’s be real – not everyone loves the idea of diving into icy water. As a licensed therapist who hates being cold, I’ve got some awesome alternatives that are just as effective and way more comfortable. Here are five simple ways to regulate your nervous system that don’t involve freezing your buns off.

Read More
Annalise John Annalise John

Life is Too Short to Follow Someone Else’s Rules

I grew up adhering strictly to rules, raised in an incredibly restrictive religion. Even after leaving, I found myself clinging to societal rules: when to go to school, get a job, marry, if and when to start a family. If you'd asked me then, I would have said, “F*** rules.” But even as I rejected them, they lingered in my mind.

Read More