Making Connections: How Young Adults Can Forge New Friendships

Hello again,

It’s Annalise here, your friendly neighborhood therapist and guide through the maze of young adulthood. Today, we’re talking about something that seems straightforward but can be surprisingly complex: making friends as a young adult.

Remember when making friends was as easy as sharing your sandbox or declaring, “You like dinosaurs? I like dinosaurs. Let’s be friends!”? Fast forward to young adulthood, and things feel a bit...different. Gone are the days of instant connections over shared toys, replaced by schedules packed with responsibilities and a world that feels both infinitely connected and strangely isolating.

So, how do young adults make friends in this digital age, with its unique blend of opportunities and challenges? Let’s dive in.

Embrace Your Interests

One of the beautiful things about growing up is discovering who you are and what you’re passionate about. Whether it’s art, sports, coding, or anything in between, your interests can be a gateway to finding your people. Look for local groups, clubs, or classes that align with your hobbies. Not only does this place you in a setting with like-minded individuals, but it also gives you a perfect conversation starter.

Leverage Technology (Wisely)

In the era of social media and apps, we have more tools at our disposal than ever before to connect with others. Platforms dedicated to fostering friendships, such as Meetup, can be invaluable. But here’s the key: use technology as a stepping stone, not a crutch. The goal is to take these digital connections offline, transforming them into real-world relationships.

Say Yes to New Experiences

Stepping out of your comfort zone can be daunting, but it’s also one of the most effective ways to meet new people. Say yes to invitations that might normally make you hesitate—whether it’s a coworker’s art exhibit, a community service project, or a casual get-together. Each new experience is an opportunity to connect with potential friends.

Volunteer Your Time

Volunteering not only enriches your life but also introduces you to others who share your values and commitment to giving back. These settings naturally foster meaningful conversations and connections, making them an excellent environment for friendship to blossom.

Be Open, Be Yourself

In the quest to make new friends, authenticity is your greatest asset. It can be tempting to try and mold yourself into who you think others want you to be. Resist that urge. True friendships are built on genuine connections. Embrace your quirks, share your thoughts, and let the real you shine through.

Remember, Quality Over Quantity

In a world obsessed with numbers—be it followers, likes, or friends—it’s crucial to remember that the depth of your friendships matters more than the breadth. A few close, meaningful relationships are infinitely more fulfilling than dozens of surface-level acquaintances.

Be Patient and Kind (to Yourself)

Finally, remember that making friends is a process, not an event. It can take time to find your people, and that’s okay. Be kind to yourself along the journey. Every step you take, every attempt to reach out, is a victory in itself.

Making friends as a young adult might feel daunting, but it’s far from impossible. It’s about putting yourself out there, embracing your interests, and being open to the people you meet along the way. Remember, every friend you have now was once a stranger. Who knows what incredible connections await just around the corner?

Keep exploring, stay true to yourself, and let the friendships fall into place.

Till next time,

Annalise

Located in Salt Lake City, Utah, and seeking mental health services? Let’s connect!

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